Your lover—or the one whom you want to be your lover—is a butterfly.
Try and catch them with a net and they’ll instinctually flap away.
Trick them into a cage and they’ll definitely resent you.
Trapping, forcing, controlling should never be the goal…
Attracting is where your focus should be.
Create such an amazing space that the butterfly can’t help but flap curiously around you.
Radiate such warm and welcoming energy that the butterfly can’t help but feel drawn to you.
You—or the one whom you want to become—are a garden.
…And if you learn how to properly take care of yourself… and grow both on the inside and the out… your butterfly will choose—won’t be able to help but to choose—to keep coming back.