It never ceases to amaze me how much we can learn from ourselves when we actually take the time to sit and clearly write the content of our minds.
We have an entire lifetime of experience, have processed an unfathomable amount of raw information, and have one of the most powerful computers synthesizing it all 24/7.
Don’t undermine yourself. Don’t sell yourself short. Don’t underestimate your abilities.
There’s more to you than you think.
Sometimes, standing between you and your next level of growth is a locked door.
And quickly trying to kick it down doesn’t work (like it might for some other doors).
No. This door, needs the right key.
But, which one is it?
We’re told all of the time that:
How to know which one is the real key?
Well, there’s only one way to find out.
Try each.
Here’s the thing: all of these keys are easily accessible and free for you to use. Heck, you can even add each of them to your key ring and use them daily if you’re up to it.
The real key is to stop trying to rashly kick down doors and to use what’s right in your hands.
When you solve the big problems what you might find is that the little problems take care of themselves.
Like, when you solve sleep.
Suddenly, you won’t need to spend so much time thinking about snoozing, caffeine, being late, battling fatigue, managing grumpy moods, hiding bags under your eyes, etc.
Or, when you solve healthy habits.
Suddenly, you won’t spend so much of your day feeling like crap, thinking about your weight, battling your lazy mind, trying to hide your body, figuring out how to treat symptoms, considering fad diets, trying out trendy workouts, questioning your self-worth, etc.
Or, when you solve gratitude.
Suddenly, you won’t feel like you’re constantly in a state of lack; like you need to hustle for more money; like you need to beat the people you’re comparing yourself to; like you need to buy the latest and greatest; like happiness is forever on the other side of a fleeting finish line.
Don’t let the urgent little overtake the important big.
Writers block is a real problem for many people. But, talkers block? It isn’t even a thing.
Well, what is writing but talking, edited?
If you try to turn your writing into something that sounds completely foreign to how you talk—of course it’s going to be a real problem.
You’re trying to write down words in a way you’d never usually use them.
Don’t do that.
Write how you talk.
Then, after you’ve said all that you can think to say—edit. Make it better. Cut out the fluff. Reorganize what you said for clarity. Give your trains of thought some tracks.
Authenticity is what makes great writing great—not fancy words and complex grammar application.
Commit to being more yourself in your writing and suddenly, writers block disappears.
Because what’s blocking you from writing isn’t the words you could say (I’m sure there’s plenty you could say about any given topic), it’s the pseudo-persona you’re trying to embody when it comes time to write.
People are going to judge.
Let them.
People are going to gossip.
Let them.
People are going to hate.
Let them.
DON’T, however, let them steal your center.
For when you let them steal your center, you lose your clarity.
And it’s when you’ve lost your clarity that you begin judging, gossiping and hating all the same.
A million seconds is 11 days.
A billion seconds is slightly over 31 years.
Sure, a billion dollars is cool and all…
But, how cool is a billion seconds??
…WAY cooler.
Here’s the deal: most people trade their billion seconds for as much money as they can possibly collect—which rarely ever amounts to anything near a billion dollars.
Here’s what’s ironic: billionaires—the people who actually manage to collect that much—would trade back their billion dollars for a billion seconds in a heartbeat.
No hesitation.
The bottom line: Only trade time for money if you have to—out of necessity. Otherwise, spend your time doing what you love—there’s no better way to spend your time.
And that’s where the real billionaires are found.