The relationship you have today will not be the relationship you have tomorrow.
Not with your spouse, your girlfriend/boyfriend, your parents, your siblings, or yourself.
Relationships change as quickly as your social media feed.
And like your social media feed… what direction your feed goes depends entirely on how you interact with your feed today.
…Not in how you intend to interact with your feed or how you plan to, hope to, or want to interact with your feed… but in how you actually interact with it.
Invest in better content, connect with better people, better utilize block/mute/unfollow… grow. Do the opposite… regress.
Invest in better experiences with people, take more initiative in surrounding yourself with better influences, better enforce your boundaries and prioritize your mental health… grow. Do the opposite… regress.
Nothing ever stays the same. Remember this as you’re deciding how you want to actually act today.