Not being able to be spontaneous isn’t about your need for a plan or your desire for control… it’s about not being able to trust yourself.
Because it’s not about what happens in each moment… it’s about what you bring to each moment…
And if you don’t think you can let go of the future (plans) and bring great energy and perspective to the present (one moment at a time)… then maybe it isn’t the plans you need to work on…