The thing about creating MASSIVE goals…
Is that doing the small things required to realize them feels disproportionately beneath them.
Focus less on the MASSIVE and focus more on the stepping-stone goals that make the non-negotiable small actions feel more substantial and worthy.
If somebody says they love you, but acts like they don’t… believe the act.
If somebody says they’re trustworthy, but acts two-faced and shady… believe the shady.
If somebody says they’re hardworking, but whines at sight of hard work… believe the whine.
If somebody says they’re humble, but obsessively tries to steal the spotlight… believe the stealing.
If somebody says family is the most important, but scoffs when you say you’re prioritizing family over work… believe the scoff.
What’s funny is that the people who act in contradiction to what they say might actually believe what they’re saying. But, what YOU should believe is how they act. Always.
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The more specific you can be with your gratitude, the more impactful it will be.
Specificity requires a more careful, deep thought process which naturally challenges you to spend more time and pull from deeper parts inside of yourself. General gratitude happens in less time and from a more peripheral area which naturally makes it less impactful and more fleeting.
“I’m thankful for my spouse,” for example, is not the same as “I’m thankful for the effort my spouse puts into making me feel seen and heard—from the way they lock eye contact to the way they silently nod and let me finish my complete train of thought to the way they respond deliberately and elegantly.”
There’s no denying the impact of any and all practiced gratitude.
Specificity, however, is how you unleash the power of gratitude in full.
P.s. I’m so incredibly grateful for the support I received in the launch of my first ever digital product—from the purchases, to the shares, to the reviews, to the comments, to the just plain great vibes… it was an overwhelmingly positive day and I am deeply grateful for each of you who contributed to it. You know who you are. Thank you :)
Drumroll pleaseeeeee…
I’ve been creating content online since 2010 and have been waiting a LONG time for this day.
The day when I get to confidently release a product that I’m damn proud of… one where no short-cuts were taken… one that I’m confident will change the direction of people’s lives in a way that my free content won’t…
And so, without further ado, here it is:
The idea: Fast is the modern day default… Fast in the wrong direction can end up being one of your life’s greatest regrets. This guide was designed to help you build unshakable confidence in your life’s direction without the HUGE price tag.
What you get:
Who’s it for? The person who sometimes questions the direction of their life. The person who isn’t 100% sure about how they even ended up moving in the direction they are. The person who sometimes gets the feeling that there’s more to life—more to themself—than they’ve been able to cultivate and realize… and who knows, deep down, that either they’re being held back or are holding themself back…
Want to learn more? Everything you need to know is here ➜
Thank you for joining me on this journey. Whether this is your first or 500th email from me—I really appreciate each of you. I’m on cloud 9 today :)
The goal isn’t healed—it’s to move towards healing.
The goal isn’t perfection—it’s to move towards excellence.
The goal isn’t detached—it’s to move towards non-attachment.
The goal isn’t unemotional—it’s to improve emotional intelligence.
The goal isn’t done—it’s to move towards a finish that has a rewarding path.
Aiming at unarrivable destinations can be quite frustrating… try aiming for a better direction instead.
P.s. Tomorrow (1/12) at 10am EST I will be releasing my first ever digital guide! In it, I’ll help you build unwavering confidence in your life’s direction in just 30 days. It’s powerful, concise, and beautifully illustrated. I can’t wait to share it with you. Full details will be sent tomorrow!
There’s no universal answer. But, if you’re able to:
I’d say you’re doing pretty damn well.
P.s. My first digital product is DONE. I will be releasing it this Thursday (1/12) at 10am. I’m ecstatic. Stay tuned. 😬