“Don’t look back—you’re not going that way.”
I disagree.
Looking back is precisely what you need to do if you’re going to keep moving forward in your life.
I’m not saying to dwell. Nor am I saying you should only look back. But, another way to say “looking back” is to reflect.
And careful reflection is key to calibrating your internal compass. You know… the internal compass that tells you which direction is forward in the first place!
What many people don’t realize is that without a properly calibrated internal compass, forward is merely a guess. And guessing isn’t a good strategy for moving forward in life.
I say, look back; reflect carefully; learn from past experiences; become a strategic, forward-moving boss who utilizes insight from their past to expedite their journey forward.
And don’t ever let yourself assume that you know all there is to know about your past.
As you age, grow, mature—the lens through which you look at past experiences will change. And how you understand those experiences will need updating and revising accordingly.
This is why we should keep looking back—all throughout life.
Change the mantra from: “Don’t look back—you’re not going that way.”
To: “Look back occasionally; calibrate; ensure you’re going the right way.”
Read my full rant on this here: Everyone Who Says You Should Never Look Back Is Wrong