Sharing publicly a highlight-reel version of our lives feels like it’s in our best interest because it:
- Makes us “more attractive”
- May lead to more opportunities
- Can capture attention that can be leveraged
What’s really in our best interest is sharing an authentic version of our lives because it:
- Attracts an authentic tribe
- Leads to more aligned opportunities
- Captures attention from the right people
Worth mentioning that these two aren’t mutually exclusive, though.
A public presence can certainly feature both—we can have an authentic highlight-reel.
But, more often than not, the former is focused on at the expense of the latter. And our mental health pays a toll in the long-run.
P.s. I asked: “What cleanses your soul?” I hope the answers inspire you to do more of what cleanses yours.