Want to learn how to have better conversations? Ask better questions.
Want to learn how to become more interesting? Become more interested.
Want to learn how to more smoothly break the ice? Subtract as much hesitation as you can and simply shoot your first question.
Curiosity is the key to great conversation.
And if you’re worried about awkward silences, here’s a pro-tip I learned from a friend: lean into the silence and let it linger. Think carefully about what’s been said and construct your next question without haste. You might be surprised how often people will reflexively fill that void first and offer additional thoughts for your curiosity to chew on.
Finally, when engaging in casual conversation, a bit short is always better than a bit long.
…Because a bit short implies there were some curiosities that weren’t fully explored—which is an excellent opener for your next interaction.